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Friday, May 30, 2025

Classic Review: PASSING


Is it my imagination or has Passing by Nella Larsen just come back into vogue? Published in 1929 it has certainly been around for a while, so why is it I've only just seen it on 'must-read' list in the the past two or three years? Apparently Passing has always been operating just below the bubbling line, it has never made too much of a splash. Even after it was published and the reviewed by W.E.B. Du Bois where he called it was of the finest books published that year saying, "the psychology of the thing; the reaction of it on friend and enemy. It is a difficult task, but she attacks the problem fearlessly and with consummate art." It still made barely a ripple. So why now? Could it be that our society is becoming less homogenous and more multicultural, and more and more people are finally acknowledging that race it just a made up construct, one that shouldn't define us? Perhaps with the popularity of books like Vanishing Half (2020) readers are starting to look around to see what other examples they can find of people of one race passing for a member of another race.

The concept of "passing" is not new in society or in literature. In the introduction to the version I read, Kaitlyn Greenidge wrote that passing was not always such a tortured act as literature would have you believe. In fact, the idea of  the horrors of passing and being found out, leading to ruination and death probably came into a new meaning, 
...when passing challenged the biological essentialism at the core of the newly developed race theory of the late nineteenth century. For whites actively working to segregate public and private life throughout the United States, "passing" was an active threat. The moral basis of white support for segregation and racial terrorism was the "fact" that humans belonged to separate races, with inherent, immutable traits that directly aligned with moral aptitude and capabilities. So what was society to make of an individual who could slip between? (ix)
In Passing two old friends chance to meet in Chicago one hot afternoon. Irene and Clare are both spending a few moments out of the sun when Clare spots Irene. Clare left home years ago and slipped into the white world, even marrying a man who is openly a racist. Irene, who also has light skin, only passes for white when it is convenient, like at this moment when she wants to do something that she could not have as a Black person, like sitting at this particular restaurant sipping an ice tea. The two friends reconnect but Irene is very uncomfortable with Clare's choice to not only pass as a white person but to return to Harlem for frequent visits. At one point, Irene is even tempted to tell Clare's husband about the ruse, after she suspects Clare of having an affair with her husband. "She was caught between two allegiances, different, yet the same. Herself. Her race. Race! The thing that bound and suffocated her. Whatever steps she took, or if she took none at all, something would be crushed. A person or the race. Clare, herself, or the race.

It is in this dilemma that the plot rests. Irene as a woman feels threatened by Clare. She wants to do something about it but she can't because it would be disloyal to her race.

The book is short, a novella really, yet there is little action. Most of the conflict occurs in Irene's mind. At one point, as my husband and I were listening to the audiobook, I turned it off and commented how boring it is when everything happens inside one character's mind. My husband thought it made a good point that we, as white people, can't relate to that tussel of ideas/conformity many people of color have to cope with every day. Good point, I conceded and turned on the audio again. At that very point, with less than 15 minutes left of the story, the climax occurred. I wasn't prepared for it but found the timing of my comment quite ironic. The ending is ambiguous but unsettling. Perhaps the author wanted her readers to question the ending by examining the idea of race vs friend vs self and then let us to draw our own conclusions.

Nella Larsen only published two novels and a few short stories yet today she is recognized as one of the finest writers to come out of the Harlem Renaissance. Interestingly she was a mixed race person, having a white mother and an Afro-Caribbean father, who may also have been mixed. The book Passing comes from a place of knowing personally what it was like to not be accepted by either world. After her parent's relationship broke up, Nella's mother married a white man and had a child with him. "[Nella] could never be white like her mother and sister, neither could she ever be black in quite the same way that Langston Hughes and his characters were black. Hers was a netherworld, unrecognizable historically and too painful to dredge up.[3]"(Wikipedia)

One gets a sense of that netherworld in Passing.

My rating 3 stars.
-Anne

Thursday, May 29, 2025

Review: THIS MOTHERLESS LAND


Title:
This Motherless Land by Nikki May

Book Beginnings quote:


Friday56 quote:

Summary:

This Motherless Land is a reimagining of Jane Austen’s Mansfield Park: Split between England and Nigeria, two extraordinary cousins are set on vastly different paths as they come to terms with their shared family history—a masterful exploration of race, identity, and love. 

Quiet Funke is happy in Nigeria. She loves her art teacher mother, her professor father, and even her annoying little brother (most of the time). But when tragedy strikes, she’s sent to England, a place she knows only from her mother’s stories. To her dismay, she finds the much-lauded estate dilapidated, the food tasteless, the weather grey. Worse still, her mother’s family are cold and distant. With one exception: her cousin Liv.

Free-spirited Liv has always wanted to break free of her joyless family. She becomes fiercely protective of her little cousin, and her warmth and kindness give Funke a place to heal. The two girls grow into adulthood the closest of friends. But the choices their mothers made haunt Funke and Liv and when a second tragedy occurs their friendship is torn apart. Against the long shadow of their shared family history, each woman will struggle to chart a path forward, separated by country, misunderstanding, and ambition.

Moving between Somerset and Lagos over the course of two decades, This Motherless Land is a sweeping examination of identity, culture, race, and love that asks how we find belonging and whether a family’s generational wrongs can be righted (Publisher).


Review: I love Jane Austen reimaginings and have read many of them over the years but this is my first reimagining of JA's Mansfield Park. If you aren't familiar with this one, you are forgiven. It is probably Austen's least favorite novel because of one uncomfortable fact: cousins marry. In the beginning of the original, one poor cousin, Fanny Price, is sent to live with her rich aunt and uncle. All of her cousins treat her with disdain except for her cousin Edmond, who becomes a friend and a confidante. Eventually, spoiler ahead, these two cousins marry "in the fullness of time." Knowing this ahead of time, I wondered how This Motherless Land was going to handle the insidious topic.

Well, as it happens, the two cousins who bond are Funke and Liv, their mothers are sisters. Funke's mother married a Nigerian man and was disowned by her family. But she happily lives in Lagos with her husband and two children. Then there is an accident and the family, is split up, with Funke being sent to England to live with her mother's family at their estate home called 'The Ring'. If not for Liv, her time in England would have been completely miserable. But because of Liv, Funke finds her place and is successful in school. Then another cruel twist finds her being sent back to Nigeria -- just like Fanny Price is sent home to her parents in Mansfield Park. It is not until years later that the cousins reunite and we are rewarded with a Jane Austenesque happy ending. 

I ended up liking This Motherless Land, a book about race, acceptance, and belonging, more than I thought I would. One aspect of the story I particularly liked was the descriptions of life in Nigeria. The author, Nikki May, is described as an Anglo-Nigerian comedic writer who is capable of straddling the line between two cultures and bringing both into focus.

My rating: 4 stars. My husband who listened with me to the audiobook, expertly narrated by Weruche Opia and Florence Howard, also liked the book and rated it with 4 stars.




-Anne

Monday, May 26, 2025

TTT: Nonfiction Animal Books

Top Ten Tuesday: Nonfiction Books about Animals.


I did a TTT post in 2021 about animal companions here. I used up an awful lot of good examples, so let me encourage you to head over and look at that list. In an effort to not create the same list again I decided to focus on information books about animals. Links take you to my reviews or to Goodreads.

In this short, delightful book, Sy takes us inside the flock and reveals all the things that make chickens such remarkable only hours after leaving the egg, they are able to walk, run, and peck; relationships are important to them and the average chicken can recognize more than one hundred other chickens; they remember the past and anticipate the future; and they communicate specific information through at least twenty-four distinct calls. With a winning combination of personal narrative and science, What the Chicken Knows is exactly the kind of book that has made Sy Montgomery such a beloved and popular author.

A solitary woman’s inspiring, moving, surprising, and often funny memoir about the transformative power of her unusual friendship with a wild fox, a new window onto the natural world.

Pack your teddy and your bear-proof lunchbox and join us on a thrilling international adventure to meet the world's eight species of bears. From polar bears to giant pandas, from spectacled bears to the asiatic moon bears, find out what makes bears so amazing. (I read this book with my grandson and we both enjoyed learning about the different types of bears together.)


In this poignant, funny, and disarmingly honest memoir, one of the world’s most beloved storytellers, tells of his family’s adoption of three troublesome rescue dogs—a charming and courageous love story about making even the most incorrigible of animals family.

In 2016, Amy Tan grew overwhelmed by the state of the Hatred and misinformation became a daily presence on social media, and the country felt more divisive than ever. In search of peace, Tan turned toward the natural world just beyond her window and, specifically, the birds visiting her yard. But what began as an attempt to find solace turned into something far greater—an opportunity to savor quiet moments during a volatile time, connect to nature in a meaningful way, and imagine the intricate lives of the birds she admired.

Imagine the life of a jumper spider in your own backyard. Imagine it from the spider's point of view, too. That is what Jumper is all about. Imagine sensing sounds and sight through vibrations. Picture what this small spider must have to do to avoid predators (birds and larger insects) and what she has to do to become a predator herself. Perfect for children of all ages.

The heartbreaking and ultimately hopeful story of an abandoned polar bear cub named Nora and the humans working tirelessly to save her and her species, whose uncertain future in the accelerating climate crisis is closely tied to our own.

Wombats Are Pretty Weird is funny, kid-friendly, and informative, and features sidebars, comic panels, extensive backmatter, and a map. Acclaimed author-illustrator Abi Cushman’s nonfiction debut contains everything anyone could ever possibly want to know about wombats!


In sharp and witty prose Schrefer uses science, history, anthropology, and sociology to illustrate the diversity of sexual behavior in the animal world.  Queer behavior in animals is as diverse and complex--and as natural--as it is in our own species. It doesn't set us apart from animals--it bonds us even closer to our animal selves.

Scientists have only recently accepted the intelligence of dogs, birds, and chimpanzees but now are watching octopuses solve problems and are trying to decipher the meaning of the animal’s color-changing techniques. With her “joyful passion for these intelligent and fascinating creatures” Montgomery chronicles the growing appreciation of this mollusk as she tells a unique love story. By turns funny, entertaining, touching, and profound, The Soul of an Octopus reveals what octopuses can teach us about the meeting of two very different minds.



A stunning celebration of birds and why we love them. Gorgeous, close-up photographs highlight the magic in every feather, with enchanting essays about how birds touch our lives.

We know dogs are our best animal friends, but have you ever thought about what that might mean?  Fossils show we’ve shared our work and homes with dogs for tens of thousands of years. Now there’s growing evidence that we influenced dogs’ evolution—and they, in turn, changed ours. Combining history, paleontology, biology, and cutting-edge medical science, Frydenborg paints a picture of how two different species became deeply entwined—and how we coevolved into the species we are today.

H is for Hawk by Helen MacDonald
"H is for Hawk" is a record of a spiritual journey - an unflinchingly honest account of MacDonald's struggle with grief during the difficult process of the hawk's taming and her own untaming. At the same time, it's a kaleidoscopic biography of the brilliant and troubled novelist T. H. White, best known for "The Once and Future King." 

This book that asks what dogs know and how they think. The answers will surprise and delight you as Alexandra Horowitz, a cognitive scientist, explains how dogs perceive their daily worlds, each other, and that other quirky animal, the human.

-Anne

Sunday, May 25, 2025

Sunday Salon ---Memorial Day and the beginning of the summer season 2025

Don and Jamie and a woodpecker tree in the fairy forest near our home


Weather: Lovely! Sunny but not hot. We've spent quite a bit of time outside just puttering. I stepped outside Saturday morning as the coffee was brewing and caught ten bird songs on the Merlin Bird App:
Spotted Towhee; House Sparrow; Song Sparrow; American Robin; Cedar Waxwing; European Starling; Violet-green Swallow; Bewick's Wren; House Finch; Dark-eyed Junco. What a cacophony!

The project: Lately I've had a bee in my bonnet to add all the past book club selections we've read to my Goodreads account. This is no easy task since one of my clubs (RHS Gals) has met for over twenty years and no one kept track of all the books we read each year. The other club (SOTH Ladies) has met continually since mid-1994, 31 years, but we have kept track of our past books, making my job easier but still daunting. (See that list here). I started using Goodreads in 2010, so that is over 180 books to add, figuring out dates, and making some small review or comment about the book. on a funny but related note, I am the #7 top reviewer in the USA this week, #10 in the world. If they looked at the quality of those reviews, they wouldn't want to reward me with this determination. Ha!

My eldest is 37: Yesterday was my daughter's 37th birthday and today we celebrated it together --Sunday Brunch and board games. How can she be so old? It just seems like yesterday when she was born. Happy Birthday, darling!

Books:
  • Finished this week:
    • Lunar New Year Love Story by Gene Luen Yang. A YA graphic novel by a favorite illustrator. My rating: 4 stars.
    • Oh William! by Elizabeth Strout. The third book in the Amgash series. I love the way Strout wrote this book, so conversational! Oddly I've read the 1st, 4th, 5th books in the series, and now the 3rd. Guess I'd better look around for the 2nd book, Anything Is Possible. It is odd reading books out of sequence, but I liked revisiting characters I've met before or later or something. My rating: 4.5 stars.
  • Currently reading:
    • Be Ready When the Luck Happens: a Memoir by Ina Garten. I am enjoying this alot. I even found her cookbook in my cupboard and made one of the entrees. It was delicious! 67% complete.
    • Go Tell It On the Mountain by James Baldwin. My next 12-pages-a-day classics. 32% complete.
Blogging this past week:


-Anne

Thursday, May 22, 2025

Review: THE FROZEN RIVER


Title:
The Frozen River by Ariel Lawhon

Book Beginnings quote:

Friday56 quote (from page 42):
Summary:
A gripping historical mystery inspired by the life and diary of Martha Ballard, a renowned 18th-century midwife who defied the legal system and wrote herself into American history.

Maine, 1789: When the Kennebec River freezes, entombing a man in the ice, Martha Ballard is summoned to examine the body and determine cause of death. As a midwife and healer, she is privy to much of what goes on behind closed doors in Hallowell. Her diary is a record of every birth and death, crime and debacle that unfolds in the close-knit community. Months earlier, Martha documented the details of an alleged rape committed by two of the town’s most respected gentlemen—one of whom has now been found dead in the ice. But when a local physician undermines her conclusion, declaring the death to be an accident, Martha is forced to investigate the shocking murder on her own. (Publisher)

Review:
Back in 1996 my book club read A Midwife's Tale: The Life of Martha Ballard Based on Her Diary 1785-1812 by Louise Thatcher Ulrich. I was completely captivated by this book and the account of an actual American midwife, practicing in the early years of our country in what is now the State of Maine. A Midwife's Tale was so well done it won the prestigious Pulitzer Prize for History in 1991, the year after it was published.  The book made a BIG impression on me. Barely a week goes by that I don't think of something I learned from it. So imagine my delight when I learned a book being considered for our book club, The Frozen River, was a novel about Martha Ballard. I'd be meeting an old friend after almost thirty years!

Though The Frozen River is essentially a murder mystery -- Who killed Joshua Burgess? -- it also is a book about what life was like for women in the late 1700s. Martha Ballard was unique in that she could read and write. Historians have used her journals (three decades worth) to better understand the lives of colonial, frontier life of women. Her journal played a central role in a rape trial as the lawyers were able to authenticate the truth of the statements made by the victim based on her entries. In addition, Ballad recorded the births she attended (over 1000), the autopsies she witnessed (85), and the herbs she used to treat ailments. Midwives were often called before courts to report on their findings about the paternity of children born out of wedlock. In 1789, the journal (and Martha Ballard) were instrumental in providing testimony in the trial of Colonel North, which was a central theme of this novelization of the actual events.

In the afterward, author Ariel Lawhon talked about her research process, where she stuck to the available facts and where she deviated to make the story more cohesive or, dare I say, exciting. One of these "exciting bits" was a little over-the-top for me thus I reduced my rating down to a 4.75 out of 5 stars. But I admit to splitting hairs at that point. I really do highly recommend The Frozen River and then if you'd like to know more, A Midwife's Tale.




-Anne

Tuesday, May 20, 2025

Classic review: THE MAGNIFICENT AMBERSONS


The Magnificent Ambersons
by Booth Tarkington won the Pulitzer Prize for the best novel in 1919. At the time Tarkington was considered one of America's best novelists and was often compared to Mark Twain. Tarkington was from Indiana and The Magnificent Ambersons story could have been taken from his own family's fall from fame. Though he was very popular when he was alive, publishing over 45 books and  25 plays, he did not remain popular after his death. By the middle of the twentieth century "he was ignored in academia: no congresses, no societies, no journals of 'Tarkington Studies'." In 1985 he was used as the example of the disparity of a writer's fame while alive compared to their oblivion after death.  Fortunately for Mark Twain, no one is comparing the two authors today.

In a nutshell, The Magnificent Ambersons was a story of three generations of Ambersons and their declining fortunes. Major Amberson makes a fortune after the Civil War and sets himself up in what is probably Indianapolis (it is never named in the book) where he builds a big mansion on a huge estate and sets about naming parks and statues after himself. The time period of the novel, between the war and the beginning of the 20th Century is a time of great industrialization and the Ambersons just aren't nimble enough to invest in the future and change with the times. They are still stuck in the past when a person's name, Amberson, was more important than what work one did. As one of George Amberson's friend says, "Don't you think being things is 'rahthuh bettuh' than doing things?"

George Amberson Minafer, the Major's grandson, is a complete brat and ill-equipped for the industrial life of the 20th Century and he is the last of the Ambersons to survive and he becomes a witness to the demise of the family fortune, forcing him to work to pay his bills. Honestly he was such a brat I found myself almost cheering when he was forced to move from the family mansion to a small apartment where his only activity outside of work was walking since he still scorned the new-fangled automobiles popping up everywhere. The best part of the book was the first chapter which was a riff on what life was like for those with money:
Magnificence, like the size of a fortune, is always comparative, as even Magnificent Lorenzo may now perceive, if he has happened to haunt New York in 1916; and the Ambersons were magnificent in their day and place. Their splendour lasted throughout all the years that saw their Midland town spread and darken into a city, but reached its topmost during the period when every prosperous family with children kept a Newfoundland dog. In that town, in those days, all the women who wore silk or velvet knew all the other women who wore silk or velvet, and when there was a new purchase of sealskin, sick people were got to windows to see it go by. Trotters were out, in the winter afternoons, racing light sleighs on National Avenue and Tennessee Street; everybody recognized both the trotters and the drivers; and again knew them as well on summer evenings, when slim buggies whizzed by in renewals of the snow-time rivalry. For that matter, everybody knew everybody else's family horse-and-carriage, could identify such a silhouette half a mile down the street, and thereby was sure who was going to market, or to a reception, or coming home from office or store to noon dinner or evening supper. 
Outside of the first chapter I admit I didn't care for the book which I rated with 3 stars. Just because a book won the Pulitzer Prize, I am finding, it doesn't mean the book will age well. And The Magnificent Ambersons has not aged well. (I can't even imagine anyone in 1919 liking it.) It is interesting to think about what life was like during this time period, however, and I found myself thinking of my grandparents. My grandfather was born in 1889 and my grandmother in 1892. They were both alive during the time period of this book. Of course neither of them lived around opulent wealth but they both witnessed the advent of cars, planes, radios, air-conditioning, phones (I think), television, electricity, indoor plumbing. (See list here.) Imagine a life without these things. I never gave my grandparents credit for living through such huge changes without becoming sticks-in-the-mud like George Amberson Minafer. Even my parents, who were both born in the late 1920s lived through many, many changes. My mom remembers the ice man delivering ice for their ice box, and my dad talked about pranks they played concerning outhouses. It is a minor miracle that my mom, age 96, can manage email just fine, even if texting is outside her skill set.
 
Even though I didn't love The Magnificent Ambersons I am glad I read it. It gave me so much to think about related to changes during the industrial revolution and life during the early period of my grandparents' lives.

-Anne

Monday, May 19, 2025

TTT: Books That Involve Travel


Top Ten Tuesday: Books That Involve Travel

Trying to keep up with my resolve to only list books I've read, this list may contain some unlikely suspects. Let me explain....



1. Between Two Kingdoms: A Memoir of a Life Interrupted by Suleika Jaouad -- After two and a half years of battling cancer the author plans a road trip to visit some of the people whose letters gave her hope and sustenance while she was sick. The trip was over 10,000 miles long. (Memoir, 2021)

2. The Not Quote States of America: Dispatches from the Territories and Other Far-Flung Outposts of the USA by Doug Mack. Mack visits all US Territories: Puerto Rico, US Virgin Islands, Guam, American Samoa, and Northern Marianas Island and reports what life is like in these territories. (Nonfiction, 2017)

3. Memorial Days by Geraldine Brooks. Brooks travels from her home in Massachusetts to a small island off the coast of Australia where she stays to do the grief work she needs to do after the death of her husband. (Memoir, 2025)

4. The Ministry of Time by Kalianne Bradley. Characters are retrieved from history and brought to the present day (which is our future.) They didn't choose the travel. Big time adjustments were needed when they were plucked from their time. (Science Fiction. 2024)

5. The Optimist's Daughter by Eudora Welty. The Optimist's daughter, Laurel, travels from her home in Chicago to her childhood home in Mount Salus, Mississippi via New Orleans. She is there to tend to her father's affairs after his death. (Literary fiction, 1972)

6. The Book of Doors by Garth Brown. The holder of the book of doors can time travel from one door to another anywhere in the world or in time. (Science Fiction, 2024)

7. Orbital by Samantha Harvey. The travelers in this novel are in the International Space Station orbiting the earth 16 times a day. (Fiction, 2023)

8. The Great Divide by Cristina Hernandez. Characters travel from all over the world to help build the Panama Canal. Two of those characters featured in the story travel are from Barbatos and from Kansas. (Fiction, 2024)

9. The Wren, the Wren by Anne Enright. Nell McDaragh must leave her home in Ireland and travel the world in order to find herself. (Literary fiction, 2023)

10.  West With Giraffes by Lynda Rutledge. Two giraffes are transported by truck across the country from New York harbor to San Diego, California. It is the 1930s and the Great Depression and this is no easy task to transport these tall animals by truck. Based on actual events. (Fiction, 2021)



-Anne

Saturday, May 17, 2025

Sunday Salon -- May!



Weather: a mixed bag: Sunny and lovely one minute, overcast and light rain the next. Right this moment (Saturday evening) it is lovely, with temperatures quite cool for this time of year.

This weekend: Sunday we will attend a concert of the Northwest Repertory Singers. Our daughter is a soprano in the choir and we always enjoy the concerts so much. Often the music is on a theme and includes songs we aren't familiar with or at least arranged differently. Afterwards the family will gather for a birthday dinner for Don, who is now as old as I am. I am posting a shortened Sunday Salon today since I will be busy all day tomorrow.

An artsy view of the front of Mom's church in Eugene (1st United Methodist)

Last weekend:
We were in Eugene with my mother for Mother's Day. All week long I've been floating around, thinking how lovely our visit was. I know I am blessed to still have my mother. I treasure every moment with her.

Another blessing: We had lunch with my cousin and his wife this week. She is recovering from brain surgery and seems to be doing well. The marvels of modern medicine and the answer to prayers.


Books:
  • Currently reading:
    • Be Ready When the Luck Happens: a Memoir by Ina Garten. This year has been unusual. This is tenth memoir I've read this year. I ordinarily will read one or two. But ten. What has gotten into me. I was attracted to this book because a. I love the advice so simply highlighted in the title, and b. I have one of her cookbooks and every recipe has worked. Audio, read by the author. 20% complete.
    • Lunar New Year Love Story by Gene Luen Yang. My daughter, Carly, turned me on to the monthly challenges on Goodreads, which I didn't even know existed. Now I'm all about finishing them in the alloted period of time. One current challenge is to read a book by Asian authors. A set list of books is provided. This graphic novel, by a favorite author/illustrator, was on both the list and my TBR. YA. e-Book. 52% complete. 
  • Completed this week:
    • The Magnificent Ambersons by Booth Tarkington. The 1919 Pulitzer Prize winner. I didn't care for the story or for the characters but it did make me think about all the changes my grandparents lived through. Review pending. e-book. 3 stars.
    • The Frozen River by Ariel Lawhon. A fictional story about  actual, historical people, Martha Ballard and her family. I read her journal, A Midwife's Tale, which won the Pulitzer Prize for Biography in 1991, so it was fun to visit this person again in a fictional novel based on her life. A book club selection. Review pending.Audio. Rating: 4.75
    • Owls and Other Fantasies: Poems and Essays by Mary Oliver. Love this poet and her work. Print. Rating: 4 stars.
    • The Safekeep by Yael van der Wouden. Set in The Netherland in the early 1960s, just 15 years after the end of WWII but the trauma of the holocaust on its citizen is not healed. On the 2025 Women's Prize shortlist. Review pending. Audio. Rating: 4 stars.
Blogging, posts and reviews from the past two weeks (click on links to read more):

Have a wonderful, book-full week!
-Anne

Friday, May 16, 2025

Big Books of Summer and 20 Books of Summer -- Kick-off



  • The #20BooksofSummer2025 challenge runs from June 1st to August 31st
  • Hosts: Annabel @AnnaBookBel and Emma @Words and Peace
  • The first rule of 20 Books is that there are no real rules, other than signing up for 10, 15 or 20 books and trying to read from your TBR.
  • Pick your list in advance, or nominate a bookcase to read from, or pick at whim from your TBR.
  • If you do pick a list, you can change it at any time – swap books in/out.
  • Don’t get panicked at not reaching your target.
  • Just enjoy a summer of great reading and make a bit of space on your shelves!
I've participated in this challenge for the past ten summers or so, mainly because it keeps me on track with my reading even if I'm off chasing fun in the sun.

My list of possible reads (not a hard and fast list):
  1. How to Read a Book by Monica Wood
  2. The Book of Lost Names by Kristin Harmel ✔
  3. American Pastoral by Philip Roth*
  4. Go Tell It On the Mountain by James Baldwin ✔
  5. Catch-22 by Joseph Heller*
  6. Hamlet by William Shakespeare
  7. Be Ready When the Luck Happens by Ina Garten ✔
  8. The Glass Maker by Tracy Chevalier
  9. Poems for Tortured Souls by Liz Ison
  10. Water, Water by Billy Collins
  11. Three Days in June by Anne Tyler ✔
  12. The Antidote by Karen Russell
  13. The Dream Hotel by Laila Lalami ✔
  14. Watchmen by Alan Moore ✔
  15. We Solve Murders by Richard Osman
  16. Oh William! by Elizabeth Strout ✔
  17. The Diamond Eye by Kate Quinn*
  18. Good Night, Irene by Luis Alberto Urrea*
  19. Crook Manifesto by Colson Whitehead
  20. The Collected Regrets of Clover by Mikki Brammer
I've put * next to the above books I know are longer than 400 pages, making them eligible for my second summer challenge: Big Book Summer Challenge hosted by Sue at Book by Book.


The Details:
Hey, it's summer, this challenge is  ow-key and easy!

  • Anything 400 pages or more qualifies as a big book.
  • The challenge runs from Memorial Day weekend (starting May 26 this year through Labor Day (September 1st this year).
  • Choose one or two or however many big books you want as your goal. Wait, did you get that?  You only need to read 1 book with 400+ pages this summer to participate! (though you are welcome to read more, if you want).
  • Sign up on the first links list below if you have a blog or YouTube channel, to leave your link so others can find you. 
  • No blog? No problem! Just sign up in the comments below or in the Goodreads group in the Sign-Up discussion thread if you don't have a blog or YouTube channel.

Each summer I aim to read 4 big books. Last year I read seven. One never knows what will happen over the course of a summer.

I'm gathering my lists. I'm deciding where I will start. Ready for summer.
-Anne

Thursday, May 15, 2025

Review: BETWEEN TWO KINGDOMS



Title: Between Two Kingdoms: A Memoir of a Life Interrupted by Suleika Jaouad

Book Beginnings quote:
It began with an inch.
Friday56 quote:
"Everyone who is born holds dual citizenship, in the kingdom of the well and in the kingdom of the sick,” Susan Sontag wrote in Illness as Metaphor. “Although we all prefer to use only the good passport, sooner or later each of us is obliged, at least for a spell, to identify ourselves as citizens of that other place.”
Summary: In 2011 when Suleika Jaouad was 23-years-old she was diagnosed with leukemia and given just a 35% chance of survival. The next three and half years were spent receiving chemo, clinical medical trials, and a bone marrow transplant. During this time she started a blog about her experiences. It gained the attention of the NYT where she was asked to write a column about her experiences. She did so when her energy allowed it. Once all that ended Jaouad has spent 1500 days trying to survive and now that survival was achieved, she didn't know how to live going forward. After a very depressing, unfocused period, she decided to head out on a road trip to meet ten or so of the people around the country who has written her during her illness. The road trip took her all across the country and back home again, over 10,000 miles. While out on the road she found herself and found a purpose for her life.

Review: Between Two Kingdoms was published in February of 2021. I became aware of the book after watching the documentary American Symphony about the juxtaposition of what was happening for Suleika Jaouad in 2022 after her cancer had returned and that of her famous husband, Jon Batiste just as his career was taking off as if shot from a cannon. 

Reading Between Two Kingdoms after seeing the documentary, likely had a dimming effect of the book for me. I knew her cancer had returned before I opened the book. Part of the focus of the documentary is about Jaouad's second bone marrow transplant in 2022, ten years after her first transplant. Knowing those two things, I just had to google to find out how she is doing now. I learned the second transplant only held for two years. Her cancer returned toward the end of 2024. I tell you all these details just to make a point -- Between Two Kingdoms is just the beginning of the story and the main character has not reached the end of the story. It is still evolving. Clearly Jaouad is still living in the kingdom of the sick but working on ways to enhance that experience with her new book: The Book of Alchemy: A Creative Practice for An Inspired Life. it is just published this month.

My rating 4.75 stars



-Anne

Wednesday, May 14, 2025

Three quick poetry book reviews -- Mary Oliver



I've hemmed and hawed long enough. Just say a kind word about the three poetry books by Mary Oliver, still in my possession from the library, and move on, Anne.

At one point a few years back, probably around the time that Mary Oliver died in 2019 at age 83, I added all of her poetry books, or at least the ones I hadn't read yet, to my TBR list. Many of the books weren't in my library system and when I would search for copies at used book sales, her volumes were never there. She's the most beloved poet in America, no wonder I could never find a used copy of anything by her -- everyone else wanted them, too.

This past April I decided to check to see if the neighboring library system in a nearby county had any of her books and they did. I'd already secured a library card so I could cross the line and check them out. I requested three volumes and they arrived late in April. Time ran out in the month before I got to all three of them. But now that I am finished I wonder how to adequately review them.

The three volumes are:
  • Owls and Other Fantasies: Poems and Essays. (Beacon Press, 2003)
  • White Pine: Poems and Prose Poems. (Harcourt Brace and Company, 1994)
  • Thirst: Poems. (Beacon Press, 2006)
In a lot of ways, if you have read any Mary Oliver poems, you know of her focus on nature, living things-- both wild and tame-- and God. Each of these three volumes revealed an aspect of her writing. 


In White Pine I felt a deep sadness in many of her poems. As you may know Mary Oliver had a dreadful childhood where she was sexually abused. She found solace in nature and spending time out of doors. Many of the poems in this volume felt like she was trying to find the salve in nature to heal the wounds from her past. Sometimes she succeeded, I think, as in this poem "At the Lake" where she is reflecting on the life of a fish and then these lines show a shift to self--

 At the Lake

... 
This is, I think,
what holiness is;
the natural world,
where every moment is full

of the passion to keep moving.
Inside every mind
there's a hermit's cave
full of light,

full of snow,
full of concentration.
I've knelt there,
and so have you,

hanging on 
to what you love,
to what is lovely.
Words one can return to again and again to remind oneself that everything will be okay. Usually Mary Oliver's poems start on some point of nature -- a tree, a bird in the pond, a toad beside the road -- but then a shift will occur and now the focus will be on the human condition, on humankind. That is why I want to keep reading, not to learn about toads, but to gain insights into myself.


Almost all of the poems and essays in the next collection, Owls and Other Fantasies. ar about, um..the obvious, birds. Even as I creaked open this volume I asked myself if I really cared enough to read a whole book full of bird poems. It was as if I hadn't read any of her other poems before to even entertain such thoughts.  The very first poem in the collection, "Wild Geese" brought me back from my negativity--
Wild Geese

You do not have to be good.
You do not have to walk on your knees
for a hundred miles through the desert, repenting.
You only have to let the soft animal of your body
     love what it loves.
Tell me about despair, yours, and I will tell you mine.
Meanwhile the world goes on...
What? I was expecting geese and it opened with me and you and everyone. Geese didn't even enter the poem until the 12th line. Surprise! Not an animal poem after all.


In 2006 Mary Oliver published Thirst. It was the first poetry collection she published since the death of her life partner, Mary Malone Cook, who died in 2005. Clearly Oliver was in the throes of deep grief. Thirst is also the most spiritual of the poetry collections I've read of hers up to this point. 

Here in the poem, "The Winter Wood Arrives" the poet talks about stacking wood for winter, but underneath that task is this--
The Winter Wood Arrives
...
             How to keep warm

is always the problem,
     isn't it?
         Of course, there's love.
              And there's prayer.

I don't belittle them,
     and they have warmed me,
         but differently,
              from the heart outwards.

Imagine
     what swirls of frost will cling
         to the windows, what white lawns
              I will look out on

as I rise from morning prayers,
     as I remember love, that leaves yet never leaves...
Heartbreaking yet comforting. It is hard to read a Mary Oliver poem and not feel the tug from each direction. Try reading the poem "After Her Death" without crying, I dare you. You'll see what I mean. In it she finds comfort from small birds who are content after eating small fish. "They open their wings / so easily, and fly. So. It is still / possible."

In the deepest of grief, when it doesn't seem possible, when we find nature shows us how to go on... just spread your wings out and fly. It is possible to go on.

I hope these short reviews have encouraged you to seek out a volume of Mary Oliver's poem today!

-Anne