Today marks the last day of April and the last day of National Poetry Month for another year. I read eleven books and found some delightful new-to-me poems and poets.
I reviewed almost all the books with the exception of 44 Poems on Being With Each Other, which I finished last night, and With My Back to the World by Chang, which I inadvertently missed. See the 44 Poems review below on this page.
Reviews:
- Make Me Rain: Poems and Prose by Nikki Giovanni. 2020. My rating- 4.25 stars.
- The Wonder of Small Things: Poems of Peace and Renewal edited by James Crews. 2023. 4.5 stars
- 44 Poems on Being With Each Other by Padraig O Tuama. 2025. 5 stars. See review below.
- Black Girl You Are Atlas by Renee Watson. 2024. 5 stars.
- For Every One by Jason Reynolds. 2018. 5 stars.
- With My Back to the World: Poems by Victoria Chang. 2024. 4 stars.
- How to Love the World: Poems of Gratitude and Hope edited by James Crews. 2021. 5 stars.
- What Kind of Woman by Kate Baer. 2020. 4.25 stars.
- Grace Notes: Poems About Families by Naomi Shihab Nye. 2024. 5 stars.
- A Year of Last Things by Michael Ondaatje. 2024. 3 stars.
- Time is a Mother by Ocean Vuong. 2022. 2.5 stars
Other posts about poetry:
- TTT: Favorite Poetry Books Reviewed in the Past Two Years (not inclusive of those in the above list)
- TTT: Excerpts of New-to-Me Poems and a few other thoughts/reflections on poetry.
A few more new-to-me poems and poets I discovered this month. Links to the Poetry Foundation.
- Poems:
- "Waiting for the Barbarians" by C.F. Cavafy
- "A Word on Statistics" by Wislawa Szymborska
- "Conflict Resolution for Holy Beings, Pt. 1" by Joy Harjo
- "At the Student Poetry Reading" by Kim Stafford
- Poets:
Review: 44 Poems on Being With Each Other by Pádraig Ó Tuama.
Years ago I discovered Roger Housden's 'Ten Poems' series. In these small books, Housden highlighted ten poems only but for each his commentary opened up the poems for me. After reading Ten Poems to Change Your Life I went on a ten-poems reading frenzy, seeking out all the volumes in the set, like my life depended on it. For the first time in my life I was holding the keys in my hand of how to read poetry. A few years later I found two volumes of poetry curated by Edward Hirsch, The Heart of American Poetry and 100 Poems to Break Your Heart. Hirsch added commentary to each poem which helped me understand and appreciate them. In addition, I was introduced to a plethora of poets and their works, another bonus. Pádraig Ó Tuama did the same thing here with 44 Poems On Being With Each Other as Housden and Hirsch did -- selecting a few poems to highlight with added insightful commentary or an enriching meditation.
Using just one poem as an example, I'll show you the pattern for each of the 44 poems.
Pádraig Ó Tuama begins each poem with a small personal note about himself. For this poem his note is about his unhappy childhood and how it is hard to break out of the flawed pattern of thinking when things go wrong he is to blame. "What helps?" he asks. "Many thing: friends, humour, learning, support. What also helps? The daring act of making: a poem, a change, a surprising sound of a new language where old language fails. Discovering a poem." His personal note always relates to the upcoming poem.
"How the Dung Beetle Finds Its Way Home" by Eugenia Leigh begins with a description of a dung beetle rolling his ball of shit home, navigating by "the Milky Way's glinting ribbon." It goes on to explain how even a little shade from a hat can confuse the little guy so he cannot get home. At this point I'm wondering if this is a nature poem about dung beetles and if I really care. In the next stanza there is a swerve, however, when suddenly I begin to wonder if the poet is talking about their own life. "See? I want to tell my missing father, it's a metaphor so simple // it's almost not worth writing down: even beetles need the stars / to nudge them back to where they need to be / when they need to be there.." Hmm. This is definitely not about beetles, but about parents and, as we learn in the next stanza, bad parents. Children of bad parents often worry that they, too, will become bad parents. The poet does just that, abandoning her family for a very short time -- "I sat on the stairwell leading up to the roof and wept / until a large bug threatened my life, at which point I recalled / the dung beetles, stopped blaming my parents, and - / thinking of metaphorical stars - I rolled up my pile of shit / and trudged back home."
This poem delighted me on many levels probably all related to saying "shit" and not getting in trouble for it. Ó Tuama began his commentary with this laugh-out-loud sentence, "I've spent more time learning about shit-rolling insects than I ever thought I would." One should be able to read a poem without too much research, but in this case, it did seem like a big temptation.
Apparently Ó Tuama also did some research about or just knows the poet. Looking across her work, Leigh details aspects of her mother's abusive behavior and her own PTSD around that. She also lives with bipolar disorder which sometimes leads to manic episodes. One wouldn't usually know any of this, but Ó Tuama brings that insight with his commentary and then adds this about the poem, "The humour, the delight, the natural wonder of the beetle who can navigate its way home is the plain telling of a truth addressed to own parents: don't treat your children like shit; if even a beetle can provide for its family, so can you." Honestly folks, I am a bet thick. I needed Ó Tuama's help to fully understand this.
The rest of the commentary, two more pages, reads a little like a counseling session where Ó Tuama is psychologist. He identifies the poet's relationship with friends who want to know where she went when she abandoned her family. Ó Tuama says, "I'm moved by the storytelling and the friendships, the exchanges of humour and confession that underpin the health of the poem and the poet's constellation of community." Using the Milky Way himself to make his point. :)
This was just one poem, multiply it by 44 and you have this complete, wonderful volume of poems! All of the poems were selected because they, in some regard, have to do with human connections. It is a timely publication since so many people are living more and more isolated lives these days. Poetry to the rescue.
Pádraig Ó Tuama is a poet, writer, theologian and conflict resolution mediator. He is a teacher and a former leader of the Corrymeela Community in Northern Ireland, a peace and reconciliation organization. He also hosts a Poetry Unbound podcast. He is known for his engaging style of teaching and mentoring, using poetry as a tool for understanding the human condition and promoting reconciliation. His resume makes him perfectly suited to add commentary and bring a depth of understanding to poems.
My rating: 5 stars.