Bull by David Elliott is the retelling of the Greek Myth of Theseus and the Minotaur. first let me tell you that I am NO student of Greek gods and goddesses and though I had heard the word 'Minotaur' before I really had no idea what it was, until now.
I decided to read Bull before I went searching around for the original myth to see if I could figure out the story without a prompt, and I could. So now I challenge you to do the same. Read the book and then read the myth and you will find many similarities and several differences but you won't have any spoilers in mind. I don't want to wreck things for you. Then go visit 'Theseus and the Minotaur' at Greek Myths and Greek Mythology.
At the end of the book the author told us how he decided to rewrite this myth with the use of poetry AND he how he decided to assign a different poetical type to each character. Dang. I wish I had known that before I read the book because I certainly would have paid closer attention to the style as well as the substance. In fact, one of my students who read the book before me said that he could rap some of the poems whereas others he couldn't. I guess there is the evidence of the differences in poetic styles. So, since I don't want to give away the story-line, let me tell you what to look for in the different characters and their poetic styles.
Asterion (the Minotaur)---was assigned poems written in Italian form: eight lines lines of iambic pentameter with a rhyme scheme of abababcc. It is like a sonnet but shorter and gave the character a noble feel.
Ariadne (the Minotaur's half-sister)---was assigned poems in the Welsh form of cywdd: cuplets of seven-syllable lines, but only one of the rhymes can be emphasized. This gave her a young and chatty feel.
Daedalus (the engineer of the labyrinth)---was assigned an unnamed form with a rhyme scheme of abcd. This is a very straight-forward type of poem, one you would expect from an engineer.
Minos (the King of Crete)---and English form: the split couplet which is one line of iambic pentameter followed by one line with two beats. The beats sounded like decrees a king might make.
Pasiphae (married to Minos, mother of the Asterion)---the queen speaks in syllabic lines, making her seem unhinged.
Theseus (son of the King of Athens sent to destroy the Minotaur)---???? I don't know what form he is assigned and Elliott didn't say, though he had very few lines so it doesn't really matter.
Poseidon (god of the sea)---he is the main god and character in the book, so Elliott did not hold him to one form or style, like the sea it was changeable. He often spoke in in rough couplets of uneven lines.
I read the book in two sittings of less than an hour each. I enjoyed the book but my discovery of the myth and the poetry styles has delighted me much more since finishing the book. I recommend it for that reason.
Wednesday, July 12, 2017
Sunday, July 9, 2017
Sunday Salon, July 9
| 4th of July climbing rose |
The plan: So my retirement has begun and now that I am home from vacation I thought I needed a plan as I begin this new phase. So far I have decided to do three things first before I embark on whatever plan I make for the day: a half hour each---walk, garden, read. Interestingly these three things have helped me stay grounded. I've noticed especially that working in the garden for a half hour each day has helped me not feel overwhelmed with what I see. As I pass a messy/weedy patch in the yard I say to myself, "I'll get to that tomorrow or the next day, but today I need to finish what I am working on." I know this doesn't sound life-changing, but it is a new way of thinking for me. Normally I get so overwhelmed when I have a lot to do that I get ten projects going all at once, which increases my feeling of being overwhelmed.
| Our side yard with fresh gravel, the cat thinks it is his new latrine |
4th of July: I found some interesting facts about this American holiday and wrote about them in a post. Please click on the link HERE to read more.
Anne's Cookbook: A new feature on this blog is Anne's Cookbook. Once a week I will add a new recipe from our family favorites. HERE is the link to the first post for Curry Chicken Summer Salad Wraps. Nothing fancy.
A new, new, new bed: Tonight we will receive our third new mattress this year as the first two just weren't right and we returned them within the trial period. Here's hoping that three is a charm.
A plant dies, a plant lives: This week I went to the local plant nursery to buy a replacement lobelia, because it had died in the planter and I wanted to replace it. Lobelia is a blue-flowered plant that does well in containers, Even though there is plenty of summer left, the nursery is trying to reduce their inventory of annuals and they had no blue lobelia left. When I got home, I noticed some lobelia growing in an impossible spot. Why wouldn't the plant grow in dirt, but does fine in concrete?
| A lobelia grows in concrete |
- Reader, I Married Him short stories edited by Tracy Chevalier. Twenty-one short stories inspired by Jane Eyre. I am on the last story. Some I enjoyed a lot, others, not so much. Read my review HERE . Print.
- The Underground Railroad by Colson Whitehead. This year's Pulitzer Prize winning novel. Yes, it is about the Underground Railroad which helped move slaves to freedom, but it is not the form we know from history. Audio.
- Eliza and Her Monsters by Fancesca Zappia...A YA part-graphic novel. A webcomic creator meets a boy who is a fan and even writes fanfiction about her comics. As she falls for the boy she is not sure if she should reveal who she really is. Print. 56%.
- In Our Backyard: Human Trafficking in America and What We Can Do to Stop It by Nita Belles. A nonfiction book about modern day slavery. A call to action! Audio. 63%.
- The Gift by Hafiz... poetry book which I had set aside. I picked it back up this week and am enjoying it now. Print. 92%.
- The Book of Uncommon Americans by Christina Henriquez...a disturbing look at immigrants' lives in our country. How hard they work and how little "we" appreciate their efforts. Audio. 75%.
Love this. I hope you enjoy. CeLLOOPa.
Have a wonderful summer (or winter, depending on your hemisphere) week!
Friday, July 7, 2017
Friday Quotes: Eliza and Her Monsters
Book Beginnings on Friday is hosted by Rose City Reader. Share the opening quote from the book.
The Friday 56 is hosted at Freda's Voice. Find a quote from page 56.
Check out the links for the rules and for the posts of the participants each week. Participants don't select their favorite, coolest, or most intellectual books, they just use the one they are currently reading. This is the book I'm reading right now---
Title: Eliza and Her Monsters by Francesca Zappia
Book Beginning:
-The storyline: a teen creator of a popular webcomic meets one of her biggest fans. He even writes fan fiction for her comic. He doesn't know who she is and she wants to keep it that way.
-The book is partially graphic (drawings) of the webcomic and texting/messages, the other part is regular prose. I like the drawings, they add to the story. I am irritated by the text messages. I hate reading the title of each speaker over and over. I like the writing but now that I am at the half-way point in the story I am wondering if the book is tad too long. What new drama will arise that will take 200 pages to resolve? Ever read a book like that?
-I do like the cover. Isn't it creative?
-I cracked up about the quotes I've included. The creepy girl quote is Eliza talking about herself. // The butterfly hair clips reminded me of when my daughter was in elementary school. I used to use them on her hair. But she has thick hair so I had to use a lot of them because they are so tiny.
The Friday 56 is hosted at Freda's Voice. Find a quote from page 56.
Check out the links for the rules and for the posts of the participants each week. Participants don't select their favorite, coolest, or most intellectual books, they just use the one they are currently reading. This is the book I'm reading right now---
Title: Eliza and Her Monsters by Francesca ZappiaBook Beginning:
Prologue: Eliza Mirk is the kind of name you give to the creepy girl who clings to her ex-boyfriend for weeks after he's dumped her because she refuses to accept that he hates her guts.Friday 56:
I sit with the paper on my desk for several minutes, staring at the back of Shelby Lewis's head and her retro butterfly clips.Comments:
-The storyline: a teen creator of a popular webcomic meets one of her biggest fans. He even writes fan fiction for her comic. He doesn't know who she is and she wants to keep it that way.
-The book is partially graphic (drawings) of the webcomic and texting/messages, the other part is regular prose. I like the drawings, they add to the story. I am irritated by the text messages. I hate reading the title of each speaker over and over. I like the writing but now that I am at the half-way point in the story I am wondering if the book is tad too long. What new drama will arise that will take 200 pages to resolve? Ever read a book like that?
-I do like the cover. Isn't it creative?
-I cracked up about the quotes I've included. The creepy girl quote is Eliza talking about herself. // The butterfly hair clips reminded me of when my daughter was in elementary school. I used to use them on her hair. But she has thick hair so I had to use a lot of them because they are so tiny.
Thursday, July 6, 2017
Anne's Cookbook: Curry Chicken Summer Salad Wraps
ANNE'S COOKBOOK is a new feature here at My Head is Full of Books. Once a week, or thereabouts, Anne will open up her own cookbook and share favorite family recipes with you. Feel free to try them, tweak them to fit your needs, PIN them, and share them.
Curry Chicken Summer Salad Wraps
This is a favorite family meal during the summer months when no one wants to heat up the house by using the stove or oven. Every person can personalize their wrap to fill their own tastes, too.
Ingredients:
- 2-3 chicken breasts
- Marinade
- 1/4 cup olive oil
- 2 Tbsp. mild vinegar, I used white champagne vinegar, but red wine vinegar would be good, too
- 1 tsp. seasoning mix, I used 21 Seasoning Salute from Trader Joe's
- 1/2 tsp. curry powder
- Sauce
- 1/2 cup plain yogurt, I used plain Greek yogurt for a thicker sauce
- 1-2 tsp. curry powder, depending on how spicy you like it.
- Package of burrito-sized tortillas
- Fixings
- Green or red seedless grapes, small bunch
- Red or Green tart apple
- Raisins, 1/4 cup
- Blanched, slivered almonds, 1/4 cup
- Celery, 1-2 spears
- Shredded romaine lettuce
Directions:
Marinate chicken breasts in the marinade for around 30 minutes. While chicken is marinating, get BBQ up to temperature. When the grill is ready, grill chicken as per your particular BBQ dictates for boneless chicken breast. (10-20 minutes). When grilling is complete, set chicken aside to rest for five minutes before slicing into small, bite-sized pieces.
While the chicken is grilling, prepare your sauce and fixings. I use small bowls for each ingredients instead of mixing everything together because my family members all have different likes and dislikes. Wash and cut grapes in half. Clean celery and then chop into small pieces. Wash and core apple, cut into bite-sized pieces. Shred or tear lettuce into small pieces. Place raisins and almonds in bowls. For the sauce, simply mix curry into the yogurt. We like it spicy at my house so I use at least 2 tsp. of curry. Some curry is sweeter than others, you may want to add a teaspoon of sugar if you think yours isn't sweet enough.
When chicken is done resting and is cut up, heat tortillas for 10-15 seconds in your microwave. Just long enough to take the chill off them. If you don't have a microwave, you can quickly heat them up using a hot pan and some sort of tongs for turning them over. A few seconds per side should do fine.
Fill your tortilla with the ingredients you like. I start by smearing the whole thing with the yogurt sauce, then I add the pieces of chicken followed by my favorite fillings (we call them do-dads.) Wrap like a burrito which means you close off the bottom and then bring the sides around, leaving only the top open. Enjoy. Go back for seconds!
Serves 4.
Note for variations: The fixings of our summer salad lean toward the sweet side of things. You can certainly add other crunchy vegetables to make it a bit more savory. Try green or red peppers, jicama, water chestnuts, shredded carrots. Don't use ingredients you don't like. For example, if you are a raisin-hater, skip them altogether. If everyone in your family loves the same do-dads, you can mix the fixings up together with the sauce ahead of time (minus the lettuce.) You can also use flat bread or pita bread instead of tortillas. We have tried them all and have decided we like tortillas best. In fact, if you prefer, you can eat this as a salad and skip the tortillas altogether. Just mix all the fixings together and serve on a bed of lettuce
Tuesday, July 4, 2017
An Independence Day blog post
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| Fireworks set off over our house a few years ago. Photo credit: Keith Stapley. Used with persmission. |
In a letter to Abigail Adams on July 3, 1776, he wrote that the occasion should be commemorated “with Pomp and Parade, with Shews, Games, Sports, Guns, Bells, Bonfires and Illuminations from one End of this Continent to the other from this Time forward forever more.” (Slate)How about that? I learned something new today. Did you? Finding out this bit of information about fireworks and the Fourth of July celebrations made me decide to dig for a few more pieces of information about this American holiday. Here are a few more things I discovered----
Only John Hancock and Charles Thompson actually signed the Declaration of Independence on July 4, 1776, all other of the 56 signers of that famous document signed after that date.
The first Independence Day was celebrated on July 8, 1776 in Philadelphia after the Declaration of Independence was read aloud for the first time. But not until 1870 did Congress declare it an official holiday.
Three Presidents have died on July 4th, Adams, Jefferson, and Monroe. Weirdly, Adams and Jefferson died on the same day just hours apart in 1826. One President, Calvin Coolidge, was born on this day.
Every 4th of July the Liberty Bell in Philadelphia is tapped (not actually rung) thirteen times in honor of the original thirteen colonies. (Academic Exchange).
Hot dogs really do go hand-in-hand with the fourth of July. Every year more than 150 million dogs are consumed on this day. Is that even possible? It is also considered our "booziest" holiday.
Joey "Jaws" Chestnut won the hot dog eating contest for the 10th year in a row today. He consumed 71 dogs and buns to win. Gross. Here is the ESPN account of it. (Ha, the Sports channel.)
"Yankee Doodle", which is a popular American patriotic song, was originally sung by British military officers in mockery of the unorganized and buckskin-wearing "Yankees."
I think of John Philip Sousa marches as the most patriot music today. Here is a fabulous website where you can listen to some of his famous marches from original recordings made on wax cylinders by Sousa and the U.S. Marine Band. Preserved by the Smithsonian. (PBS) My favorite is "Stars and Stripes Forever."
Today we watched our neighborhood parade, a parade we started over 20 years ago when our girls were young. It is still going after all these years (and it is just as rinky-dink as ever.) Later we will watch fireworks set off by neighborhood kids and eat hamburgers with our friends Susie and Keith. Happy 4th of July!!!
(Below are photos of my girls and husband back in 1994 in Midland Michigan, during and after the neighborhood parade in my brother's neighborhood. I got the idea for our parade from this event. Thanks Becky!)
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| Carly was happy now that the parade is over and there was pop and cupcakes. |
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| Don helped Carly by pulling her during the parade. |
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| Rita, a patriotic soul. |
Monday, July 3, 2017
Reader, I Married Him: Stories Inspired by Jane Eyre
Reader, I Married Him: Stories Inspired by Jane Eyre is a collection of twenty-one short stories by well-known writers from all over the world. Each story picks at the famous last line of Jane Eyre by Charlotte Bronte, "Reader, I married him." Some of the stories are set in the same time frame and setting as the original book but most are set in modern times with decidedly modern themes. But after reading all twenty-one of the short stories I realized that I had misinterpreted the Jane Eyre story when I first read it as a young teenager, and I've carried that misconception with me ever since.
As a teenager, quite smitten with the concept of love, I summed up the book this way in my mind---Jane and Mr. Rochester were made for each other and wasn't it terribly romantic that they could finally be together after the death of his first wife, who had been trapped in the attic for so many years. Ah.
But after reading these stories, I scurried over to Shmoop to take a look at the themes and what other experts say about Jane Eyre and I realize I missed the point. In fact, I missed a lot of points. First, and foremost, the relationship between Jane and Mr. Rochester was wrong on so many levels and HE knew it. HE knew he had a wife in the attic when he was courting Jane. HE knew that she was young and vulnerable. It is really pretty creepy to think about, actually. Secondly, the theme of the underdog is quite prominent. Jane was the quintessential underdog and it is likely that most people can relate to her on that level, at least partially. Thirdly, there are more questions than answers to his motives. Was he a serial adulterer? Would he have treated Jane the same way as his first wife when he got tired of her? Perhaps he could lock her in the basement (tee-hee). Was Adele really his own daughter? Was Jane really a martyr when she went back and found the wounded and blind Mr. Rochester but married him anyway? Were they now equals now, both wounded and blind in certain ways?
I suspect it is the questions that the book evokes in the readers' minds which has kept the story popular these past 170 years since it was first written. Readers probe the book looking for the answers.
Tracy Chevalier, the editor of Reader, I Married Him comments on the queer turn of phrase that Bronte used at the conclusion of her masterpiece. Why didn't she say, "Reader, he married me", or "Reader, we married?" Instead Jane finally asserts herself. She decides to marry Rochester, knowing everything she now knows. (2) So taking that phrase and tossing it like a stone into a pond, each author author watches the ripples and creates a story to fit them and their background.
Sally Vickers writes the Jane Eyre story from Mr. Rochester's point of view in "Reader, She Married Me." It was a sort of clearing the record for him. He wanted the record to show that he no longer loved Jane Eyre and didn't want to marry her but did it because he'd been such a lout in the beginning. Audrey Niffenegger, in the "Orphan Exchange", takes the early part of the Jane Eyre story when Jane is in the horrible boarding school, Lowland, and then give it an almost Science Fiction twist, where Jane and Helen are part of an Orphan Exchange in which companies can do science experiments on the orphans since there is no one who will stand up for them and their rights. In this story Jane and Helen eventually find each other again and live happily together.
The funniest story, in my opinion, was "The Mash Up" by Linda Grant. The first line sets the stage---"The wedding was perfect, up to a point." A couple have decided to marry. She is Jewish, he is Persian. They find a Rabbi to marry them who is able to personalize the ceremony to fit both families. But at the point when the perfect wedding goes wrong, so does the relationship. Some issues are insurmountable in marriage, I think.
The multicultural aspect of the stories was refreshing. Namwali Serpell, who is from Zambia, writes a story set in her homeland, "Double Man". In the story we see many of the cultural traditions leading up to a wedding and how the older generation wants certain things to happen for tradition-sake and the younger generation go along with these traditions to make peace. At the point which I imagine is the equivalent of the rehearsal dinner both the aunt and the bride-to-be find the girl's fiance in a compromising situation with the her cousin. The aunt insists that she should marry him anyway. The girl refuses. Some traditions are not worth keeping.
With a few exceptions, I liked all of the stories. Most dealt with the theme of love, either at the beginning of a relationship or at it's dying embers. Most, but not all, brought up the subject of marriage. All the stories were short enough, ten to fifteen pages, to digest in one sitting. And though I wasn't familiar with all the authors in this collection, they all seemed very competent at the craft of writing a short story which left the reader (me) with either a smile on my face or a question in my mind to ponder more fully on my own time.
I know that reading short stories isn't for everyone but if you fancy yourself a Jane Eyre fan or just a classic fan, I recommend this collection. And maybe you, too, will ask yourself if you need to rethink what you thought of the book, Jane Eyre, in the first place.
My rating 4 out of 5 stars.
As a teenager, quite smitten with the concept of love, I summed up the book this way in my mind---Jane and Mr. Rochester were made for each other and wasn't it terribly romantic that they could finally be together after the death of his first wife, who had been trapped in the attic for so many years. Ah.
But after reading these stories, I scurried over to Shmoop to take a look at the themes and what other experts say about Jane Eyre and I realize I missed the point. In fact, I missed a lot of points. First, and foremost, the relationship between Jane and Mr. Rochester was wrong on so many levels and HE knew it. HE knew he had a wife in the attic when he was courting Jane. HE knew that she was young and vulnerable. It is really pretty creepy to think about, actually. Secondly, the theme of the underdog is quite prominent. Jane was the quintessential underdog and it is likely that most people can relate to her on that level, at least partially. Thirdly, there are more questions than answers to his motives. Was he a serial adulterer? Would he have treated Jane the same way as his first wife when he got tired of her? Perhaps he could lock her in the basement (tee-hee). Was Adele really his own daughter? Was Jane really a martyr when she went back and found the wounded and blind Mr. Rochester but married him anyway? Were they now equals now, both wounded and blind in certain ways?
I suspect it is the questions that the book evokes in the readers' minds which has kept the story popular these past 170 years since it was first written. Readers probe the book looking for the answers.
Tracy Chevalier, the editor of Reader, I Married Him comments on the queer turn of phrase that Bronte used at the conclusion of her masterpiece. Why didn't she say, "Reader, he married me", or "Reader, we married?" Instead Jane finally asserts herself. She decides to marry Rochester, knowing everything she now knows. (2) So taking that phrase and tossing it like a stone into a pond, each author author watches the ripples and creates a story to fit them and their background.
Sally Vickers writes the Jane Eyre story from Mr. Rochester's point of view in "Reader, She Married Me." It was a sort of clearing the record for him. He wanted the record to show that he no longer loved Jane Eyre and didn't want to marry her but did it because he'd been such a lout in the beginning. Audrey Niffenegger, in the "Orphan Exchange", takes the early part of the Jane Eyre story when Jane is in the horrible boarding school, Lowland, and then give it an almost Science Fiction twist, where Jane and Helen are part of an Orphan Exchange in which companies can do science experiments on the orphans since there is no one who will stand up for them and their rights. In this story Jane and Helen eventually find each other again and live happily together.
The funniest story, in my opinion, was "The Mash Up" by Linda Grant. The first line sets the stage---"The wedding was perfect, up to a point." A couple have decided to marry. She is Jewish, he is Persian. They find a Rabbi to marry them who is able to personalize the ceremony to fit both families. But at the point when the perfect wedding goes wrong, so does the relationship. Some issues are insurmountable in marriage, I think.
The multicultural aspect of the stories was refreshing. Namwali Serpell, who is from Zambia, writes a story set in her homeland, "Double Man". In the story we see many of the cultural traditions leading up to a wedding and how the older generation wants certain things to happen for tradition-sake and the younger generation go along with these traditions to make peace. At the point which I imagine is the equivalent of the rehearsal dinner both the aunt and the bride-to-be find the girl's fiance in a compromising situation with the her cousin. The aunt insists that she should marry him anyway. The girl refuses. Some traditions are not worth keeping.
With a few exceptions, I liked all of the stories. Most dealt with the theme of love, either at the beginning of a relationship or at it's dying embers. Most, but not all, brought up the subject of marriage. All the stories were short enough, ten to fifteen pages, to digest in one sitting. And though I wasn't familiar with all the authors in this collection, they all seemed very competent at the craft of writing a short story which left the reader (me) with either a smile on my face or a question in my mind to ponder more fully on my own time.
I know that reading short stories isn't for everyone but if you fancy yourself a Jane Eyre fan or just a classic fan, I recommend this collection. And maybe you, too, will ask yourself if you need to rethink what you thought of the book, Jane Eyre, in the first place.
My rating 4 out of 5 stars.
Sunday, July 2, 2017
Sunday Salon--- Whistler vacation highlights
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| Panorama view from Whistler |
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| Sticky Toffee Pudding. Yum! |
| A black bear #1 near the Olympics ski-jumping venue |
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| Bear #2 a little further down the road |
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| On the top of Whistler |
| A view of the mountains from the dock on Alta Lake |
Floating on Lake Alta: a few years ago we purchased a rubber canoe and we use it once a year, at Whistler! This year was no exception. On Friday we inflated the canoe and floated out on the lake together. To be really honest, I floated and Don rowed us around until we were far enough up wind that we could safely float back to our original spot. Ah, that is my definition of vacation. We even managed to put on enough sunscreen to avoid sunburns all week. We have no photos of us in our canoe because we didn't take our phones (cameras) with us on the boat.
| Happy 150th, Canada |
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| (Concert venue: Whistler Olympic Plaza) |
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| (Waiting for the concert to begin) |
Reading: I was in a true vacation mode, so I got a lot of reading done, too.
- Milk and Honey by Rupi Kaur---poems about abuse, trauma, loving, breaking up, and finally healing. Very well done. Print.
- A Girl Called Vincent by Krystnya Goddu---a biography about the poet Edna St. Vincent Millay. It included lines from some of her famous poems. She was quite a gal! Print.
- The Dead Inside by Cyndy Etler--- a memoir about Cyndy's experience as a young teenager when she was sent to a drug rehabilitation center which was more like a concentration camp. Print. (Read my review of the three above books, click here.)
- Bull by David Elliott---the story of the Minotaur from Greek Mythology, written in poetry, many could be made into hip-hop music. Print.
Not quite finished:
- Reader, I Married Him short stories edited by Tracy Chevalier. Twenty-one short stories inspired by Jane Eyre. I am on the last story. Some I enjoyed a lot, others, not so much. Look for my review tomorrow or Tuesday. 95% complete. Print.
- The Underground Railroad by Colson Whitehead. This year's Pulitzer Prize winning novel. Yes, it is about the Underground Railroad which helped move slaves to freedom, but it is not the form we know from history. Don and I listened to 8/9th of this audiobook on our trip to and from Canada, now we will both have to finish it separately. Audiobook.
Fab Four: I've been listening the Beatles channel of Sirius Radio a lot lately. They have a feature where they ask a famous artist or musician for a list of their favorite FAB FOUR Beatles tunes. I've been thinking about this, too. What are my favorite Beatles tunes? What are your FAB Four favorite Beatles songs and why? Play along!!! Here is my list, though it probably changes every day...
- "Hey Jude"...when I was young I would put on "Hey Jude" on the record player right before starting to wash the dishes. My goal was to finish with the dishes before the song ended. "Hey Jude" is a little over 8 minutes long, so I would really hurry to finish up my job. Lots of times I didn't make it, but I would try.
- "Lovely Rita, Meter Maid"...we didn't name our daughter Rita after this song but almost all of our friends have asked us if we did. I can't help thinking of my darling daughter whenever I hear the song.
- "The Birthday Song"... the standard happy birthday song is so old and tired and no one can really sing it well. I love this rock-n-roll birthday greeting instead. It makes me happy.
- "When I'm 64"...I find myself singing this song more and more these days. I wonder why?
Your turn!
Friday, June 30, 2017
Three short book reviews
Yesterday my husband read me a quote, which I can't remember exactly, but it went something like this, "Strong readers are omnivorous. They read anything." I think these three books are proof that I am a omnivorous reader.
A Girl Called Vincent: The Life of Poet Edna St. Vincent Millay by Krystyna Poray Goddu. This book is a biography of the famous American poet aimed at junior readers (mid to upper elementary school students.) It is full of photos and poems by Vincent Millay which make the book quite charming and disarming.
Vincent, as Edna St. Vincent Millay was called by her family and friends, was the life of every party she attended. Her sisters said of her that it was like she was always being chased by a bee. If nothing was happening, she would make up something so that everyone was entertained and happy. Vincent's mother divorced her father when Vincent was around ten and then had to struggle to keep them feed and with a roof over her head. Quite often Vincent would be left for days at a time to tend her younger sisters while the mother was away nursing others. Her mother encouraged the girls in the Arts. Vincent not only wrote poetry but she played the piano beautifully, she wrote plays and, later in life, novels, and she acted on stage. In 1923 she won a Pulitzer Prize for her collection of poems, The Ballad of the Harp-Weaver.
Milk and Honey by Rupi Kaur is a collection of poetry and prose about abuse and survival. The poems, most of them are very short, are all thought-provoking, but come across almost in a stream-of-consciousness way. The book is divided into four parts: hurting, loving, breaking, and healing. Originally Kaur self-published Milk and Honey because, she said, there is no market for poetry editions on the theme of abuse and trauma. But after it quickly sold out, it was picked up by Andrew McMeel Publishing and has become a New York Times best seller.
I purchased the book for the school library based on the request of a student. I didn't jot the student's name down, however, and so I hope she eventually finds it on the shelves herself. The story, which does seem to be a story, is mostly told in poetry. Fans of Ellen Hopkins and Sonya Sones will be drawn to this slim volume. The topics of incest and abuse are tough topic, however, so this book will not be embraced by everyone. I especially liked the parts toward the end of the book where the poems point to healing and embracing love for self.
you must
want to spend
the rest of your life
with yourself
first
(p. 198)
I recommend that other omnivorous readers pick up this volume of poetry. It has a lot to say that is important, if not difficult, to hear. My rating: 4 of 5 stars.
The Dead Inside by Cyndy Etler is a memoir and an exposé of Straight, Inc. a drug rehabilitation program which is more like "a concentration camp for throw away kids" (ACLU).
Cyndy Etler's mother remarried after her father died when she was very young. The man who was now her step-father starting sexually abusing her at some point in her life. To try and escape her tormentor Cyndy tried running away from home and found some comfort from a neighbor and from a friend down the block. This friend, Joanna, introduced Cyndy to marijuana, though she only used it twice. Because of the runaways and the drug use, Cyndy's mother had her incarcerated (essentially) in a drug treatment facility called Straight, Inc. Cyndy couldn't believe the nightmare she was forced to live where other patients were her tormentors and the only way out was to go along with them and act as if was one of them. This went on for sixteen months before Cyndy was released to go home. Though Cyndy was certainly making wrong choices before she was sent to Straight, Inc., the treatment went way over-the-line in terms of what is acceptable. In fact, Straight, Inc. was eventually shut down by lawmakers, though incarnations of it still exist today.
I read the book incredibly fast, scanning some of the sections of the horrors of the treatment wrought on the patrons at Straight, Inc. just because the details were so awful. Though this happened to Cyndy in the late 1980s and she has since landed on her feet and teaches school to troubled kids today, it is a wonder that anyone who emerged from Straight, Inc. doesn't have to attend full-time therapy today.
One thing that really bothered me as I read the book--- though Cyndy eventually tells the "group" about the incest, it was completely dismissed as her fault. Nowhere else in the book does she tell any adult about the abuse. One has to wonder if she had done that if this nightmare might not have landed on her head. Not being a victim of abuse myself I am always curious about the reticence of the victim to expose the perpetrator.
I wouldn't say this was an enjoyable book. But it certainly had some important things to say and to think about. I also didn't think the book was especially well-written. I still think that teens will find their way to this book and will pass it on to their friends. My rating is 3 of 5 stars.
A Girl Called Vincent: The Life of Poet Edna St. Vincent Millay by Krystyna Poray Goddu. This book is a biography of the famous American poet aimed at junior readers (mid to upper elementary school students.) It is full of photos and poems by Vincent Millay which make the book quite charming and disarming.
Vincent, as Edna St. Vincent Millay was called by her family and friends, was the life of every party she attended. Her sisters said of her that it was like she was always being chased by a bee. If nothing was happening, she would make up something so that everyone was entertained and happy. Vincent's mother divorced her father when Vincent was around ten and then had to struggle to keep them feed and with a roof over her head. Quite often Vincent would be left for days at a time to tend her younger sisters while the mother was away nursing others. Her mother encouraged the girls in the Arts. Vincent not only wrote poetry but she played the piano beautifully, she wrote plays and, later in life, novels, and she acted on stage. In 1923 she won a Pulitzer Prize for her collection of poems, The Ballad of the Harp-Weaver.
But Millay’s popularity as a poet had at least as much to do with her person: she was known for her riveting readings and performances, her progressive political stances, frank portrayal of both hetero and homosexuality, and, above all, her embodiment and description of new kinds of female experience and expression. “Edna St. Vincent Millay,” notes her biographer Nancy Milford, “became the herald of the New Woman.”---The Poetry FoundationI really enjoyed reading about this famous American and very popular poet. I chided myself for never reading any of her poetry before and plan to rectify that situation as soon as I can. I recommend this book for anyone who likes to read biographies of famous Americans or who, like me, fancies themselves a poetry lover. My rating 4 of 5 stars.
Milk and Honey by Rupi Kaur is a collection of poetry and prose about abuse and survival. The poems, most of them are very short, are all thought-provoking, but come across almost in a stream-of-consciousness way. The book is divided into four parts: hurting, loving, breaking, and healing. Originally Kaur self-published Milk and Honey because, she said, there is no market for poetry editions on the theme of abuse and trauma. But after it quickly sold out, it was picked up by Andrew McMeel Publishing and has become a New York Times best seller.
I purchased the book for the school library based on the request of a student. I didn't jot the student's name down, however, and so I hope she eventually finds it on the shelves herself. The story, which does seem to be a story, is mostly told in poetry. Fans of Ellen Hopkins and Sonya Sones will be drawn to this slim volume. The topics of incest and abuse are tough topic, however, so this book will not be embraced by everyone. I especially liked the parts toward the end of the book where the poems point to healing and embracing love for self.you must
want to spend
the rest of your life
with yourself
first
(p. 198)
I recommend that other omnivorous readers pick up this volume of poetry. It has a lot to say that is important, if not difficult, to hear. My rating: 4 of 5 stars.
The Dead Inside by Cyndy Etler is a memoir and an exposé of Straight, Inc. a drug rehabilitation program which is more like "a concentration camp for throw away kids" (ACLU).
Cyndy Etler's mother remarried after her father died when she was very young. The man who was now her step-father starting sexually abusing her at some point in her life. To try and escape her tormentor Cyndy tried running away from home and found some comfort from a neighbor and from a friend down the block. This friend, Joanna, introduced Cyndy to marijuana, though she only used it twice. Because of the runaways and the drug use, Cyndy's mother had her incarcerated (essentially) in a drug treatment facility called Straight, Inc. Cyndy couldn't believe the nightmare she was forced to live where other patients were her tormentors and the only way out was to go along with them and act as if was one of them. This went on for sixteen months before Cyndy was released to go home. Though Cyndy was certainly making wrong choices before she was sent to Straight, Inc., the treatment went way over-the-line in terms of what is acceptable. In fact, Straight, Inc. was eventually shut down by lawmakers, though incarnations of it still exist today.I read the book incredibly fast, scanning some of the sections of the horrors of the treatment wrought on the patrons at Straight, Inc. just because the details were so awful. Though this happened to Cyndy in the late 1980s and she has since landed on her feet and teaches school to troubled kids today, it is a wonder that anyone who emerged from Straight, Inc. doesn't have to attend full-time therapy today.
One thing that really bothered me as I read the book--- though Cyndy eventually tells the "group" about the incest, it was completely dismissed as her fault. Nowhere else in the book does she tell any adult about the abuse. One has to wonder if she had done that if this nightmare might not have landed on her head. Not being a victim of abuse myself I am always curious about the reticence of the victim to expose the perpetrator.
I wouldn't say this was an enjoyable book. But it certainly had some important things to say and to think about. I also didn't think the book was especially well-written. I still think that teens will find their way to this book and will pass it on to their friends. My rating is 3 of 5 stars.
Sunday, June 25, 2017
Sunday Salon from Whistler
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Over and out. For four days this past week I made my way to the library to finish up and fulfill my added contract hours before I was willing to say I was fully retired. On Thursday I spent four hours with the new librarian going over everything I could think she'd need to know to make her start-up as easy as possible. I am pretty sure all I accomplished was scaring her to death. Right before I locked up the library for the last time I took a telephone call from an angry parent about a fine. And when I say angry, I mean off-the-charts angry. As I reflected on it later, I couldn't believe that my last parental interaction was so awful, one of the worst I've ever encountered in my 37 years of teaching. I think there was a subliminal message in it probably. Something like, "this is one of the reasons you are leaving." Sigh. Anyway, I made it. I cleaned up my spaces, turned in my keys and school credit card. I am done. Retired! Over and out.
Sunburned: On my first day (Friday) of full retirement, after an early morning dental appointment, I decided to lay in the sun for ten minutes, just to gt a little color on my cheeks. Instead, I fell asleep and when I awoke my head fortunately was in the shadows of a tree but not my feet. First day of retirement and I burned my feet. Oh brother.
Whistler: We just arrived at Whistler, BC for a week of happy vacationing and communing with nature. We love it here. The place is so gorgeous, surrounded by mountains and lakes, with bike trails, golf courses, and lots of things to do. Our eldest daughter is joining us for a few days. She just called after having her car battery die on the trip up, so she is a bit delayed.
Reading: I realized this week how deeply I was affected by my impending retirement the past month. A sort of malaise descended on me and I was just drained emotionally, crying at a drop in the hat. This really impacted my reading time. I just didn't have the attention span to read much more than a few poems at night before going to bed. This week the cloud of malaise lifted and I found my way back to books and was even able to finish a few of them.
- Strange the Dreamer by Laini Taylor---a favorite author of the Daughter of Smoke and Bone series. This book is the first book in a new series set in a magical land of Gods and monsters and one really precious person, Strange the Dreamer. The book ends on a cliff-hanger so I don't recommend it until the second book of the duology is published. Audiobook.
- Wolf by Wolf by Ryan Graudin---another blogger recommended this book to me and it has been sitting on my bedside table literally all school year. I finally finished it in time to turn it in with my school laptop and iPad. I had to return everything. Finally I had the incentive to finish the book and enjoyed it quite a lot. I hope to review it soon. Print.
- The Little Book of Hygge by Meik Wiking---what makes Danes the happiest people on earth? Why hygge, of course. This book tells the reader all about it. Though the point was belabored I did enjoy it and the concept of making one's life and interactions more cozy and comfortable. Print.
Currently reading:
- Milk and Honey by Rupi Kaur---a book of poetic prose about sexual abuse and learning to love oneself. Very touching. 90% complete. Print.
- The Book of Unknown Americans by Christina Henriquez---I downloaded this book last summer as part of the free audiobook summer giveaway at SYNC Audiobooks. I am finally getting to it. 20% complete. Audiobook.
- The Underground Railroad by Colson Whitehead---This Pulitzer Prize winner came available on my library account so I had to jump or go back in the queue for another long wait to listen to it. Don and I started it today for our trip to Canada. 35%. Audiobook.
In my book bag as possible reads for the week. Now that I don't have an iPad, I am back to print or audio books only, no ebooks. I stuffed a laughable number of books in a bag this morning to see what fits my fancy this week:
- The Four Things that Matter Most by Ira Byock, MD.---my mother just gave me and my siblings this book and wants us to read it. It really touched her.
- A Girl Called Vincent by Krystyna Goddu--- a junior book about the poet Edna St. Vincent Millay
- American Street by Ibi Zoboi--- one of my student readers highly recommended this book to me. Thought I should honor her and read it.
- Reader, I Married Him: Stories Inspired by Jane Eyre edited by Traci Chevalier--- I like reading short stories on vacation.
- Every Last Cuckoo by Kate Maloy---this coming month's book club selection.
- The Dead Inside: a True Story by Cyndy Etler--- a new memoir about the horrors of the drug treatment program called Straight, Inc. I read these types of books with horrified fascination.
Go ahead and laugh. Even I didn't realize how many books I brought until I started listing them here.
I'm off to make spaghetti dinner, a vacation staple.
Saturday, June 24, 2017
The Little Book of Hygge: Danish Secrets to Happy Living by Meik Wiking
The little of what? Hygge?
Yep, that is correct, hygge. In this little book by Meik Wiking, the CEO of the Happiness Research Institute of Copenhagen, we learn all about hygge (pronounced hoo-ga) and how it almost single-handedly makes Danes the happiest people on earth (or at least in Europe.) Hmm. I guess that is worth exploring. I don't necessarily need to be the happiest person on earth, but I could always bump up my happiness factor a few degrees. Couldn't you? With that thought in mind I purchased The Little Book of Hygge while I was exploring the bookstore in Cannon Beach, Oregon a few weeks ago.
To begin with Meik Wiking defines or rather explains what hygge is by using examples:
Yep, that is correct, hygge. In this little book by Meik Wiking, the CEO of the Happiness Research Institute of Copenhagen, we learn all about hygge (pronounced hoo-ga) and how it almost single-handedly makes Danes the happiest people on earth (or at least in Europe.) Hmm. I guess that is worth exploring. I don't necessarily need to be the happiest person on earth, but I could always bump up my happiness factor a few degrees. Couldn't you? With that thought in mind I purchased The Little Book of Hygge while I was exploring the bookstore in Cannon Beach, Oregon a few weeks ago.
To begin with Meik Wiking defines or rather explains what hygge is by using examples:
- The art of creating intimacy
- Coziness of the soul
- The absence of annoyance
- Creating an atmosphere and an experience
- Being with people we love
- Feeling safe, shielded from the cares of the world so we can let our guard down
- It is NOT about things, though some things like fireplaces, candles, and certain types of lamps will increase the feeling of hygge
- The word hygge originates from a Norwegian word meaning "well-being"
Throughout the book Wiking talks about the way that Danes work at creating spaces which are cozy, comfortable, and homey. They even do this is the corporate world where stores and shops will advertise that their space or product will increase hygge or it is hyggelig[t]. Danes use the word as both an adjective and as a verb. A person my exclaim, "Oh, what a hyggelig living room!" which translates to mean, what a nice, cozy space that is hygge-like, where we can be comfortable and talk. Or they may wonder if their guests hyggede (past tense) themselves after a party. Danes will also use hygge in compound words, like hyggespreder, a person who spreads hygge, or refer to a warm pair of wool socks as hyggesokker. It is all a bit confusing, really, but I can go with it. In fact, I think I am learning a bit of Danish along the way.
But since I do not live in Denmark, how do I increase my hygge here is America, and consequently my happiness? Wiking suggests that we can do it by creating cozy spaces with the use of candles, lighting, comfortable pillows and throws, and serving cake. We can host intimate dinner parties where the goal is to cook something delicious but slowly, and doing it as a group effort. The goal is to create comfort and intimacy. I can work on that.
Some parts of the book seemed more about Danish culture than anything else. Cutting out paper hearts, making a particular rice pudding, risalamande, and wearing woolen scarves don't seem as important as thinking about being welcoming, gentle, warm, and open. The Danes have just incorporated things from their culture into the concept of hygge and it works for them.
As I read the book I thought about how I could work on making my life more hygge and in fact without realizing it, I have already started. For example, now that Don and I live alone, we have started preparing dinner together. Instead of me whipping up something quickly before he gets home from work, I wait for him to get home so we can prepare the meal together. Last night, for example, we had a very hyggeligt experience of cutting up chicken and vegetables together. Then we marinated them while the BBQ got up to temperature. We made the meat and vegetables into shish kabobs to grill. The whole affair took us over an hour before we could eat but the experience of doing it together increased our appreciation of the final product. It was a hygge dinner.
My daughter hosted a pizza party at her home in New York. Twenty five people came, which doesn't sound very cozy. But she did a very hyggeligt thing. She made the dough ahead of time, because it needed time to rise, but otherwise she had everyone create their own pizza from the ingredients they brought to share. Soon a large party of 25 people became a cozy affair of people interacting, and making good food together. That was a hyggeligtpizza-party! (I made that word up.)
Now about the book. Though I enjoyed reading it, I honestly thought I could have gotten the concept easily enough in a magazine article rather than a whole book. But the pictures, recipes, and examples did add to the hyggeligt experience of reading it. Come to think of it, I am glad I read it. Now who should I share the book with next? We need to spread word about hygge around so we can increase happiness in the world. I guess I am the newest hyggespreder.
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